The human breast is unusual within the animal kingdom because the size of the human breast bears no relation to its ability to lactate. In all other mammals the breasts remain small or inconspicuous until lactation takes place. The human breast, from the onset of puberty, grows to a lesser or greater extent to differentiate the female form from the male form and so attract the male human for the purpose of procreation. The bigger the breast the greater the differentiation and the more easily noticed by the male. Once the breast grows, it does not remain at a set size. The size of the breast will fluctuate depending on the physiological and psychological state of the female. It can also change shape and size after childbirth and post menopause because the need for attracting a mate is either diminished or disappears.
Breast size can be a boon to some women and curse to others. Larger breasts tend to attract more male attention and if that attention is desired can create increased competition for that attention, with the small breasted woman feeling inadequate alongside her larger breasted counterpart. Some women with larger breasts may not want that attention and find the increased attention burdensome. Very large breasts can also create an imbalance in the posture making it uncomfortable to live with.
Breast size is not an indication of the fecundity of the woman, in fact the reverse might even be the case as some women fall pregnant more easily than others. Those that fall pregnant easily do not need to have sexual intercourse on a number of occasions. Those that do not fall pregnant easily may have to have many attempts before pregnancy is achieved, larger breasts may help in placing the thought of sex in the mind of the potential father.
Some people confuse breast size with sexiness. Looking sexy and being sexy is not a physical thing. It is a state of mind, just ask people at a nudist camp. Nudist camps are not about sex, although the non-nudist might think otherwise. Nudist camps are all about being free of clothes. You will find people of all different ages, shapes and sizes in a nudist camp. Those woman who might feel inadequate in society due to the size of their breasts, will not feel so in a nudist camp once they have adjusted to being naked alongside everyone else.
As I mentioned the size of the breast bears no relation to its ability to lactate. 3 elements affect lactation 1) Genetics – as with all human capabilities, they will vary within a population. With all things being equal some woman will produce more milk than others. 2) nutrition – without adequate nutrition and the mother not being in good physical health, milk production will not reach its full potential and 3) state of mind – for effective and efficient breast-feeding to take place the mother must be in a good state of mind, this allows for the production of oxytocin, which creates milk flow. If a mother is in a state of anxiety i.e. she is not comfortable, oxytocin production will be restricted and consequentially so will lactation.
Breasts are personal to each woman, their exposure, however much or little, can undermine or enhance the woman’s sense of well being depending the timing, the place and the environment. To fully expose breasts in a nudist camp is not only acceptable but appropriate; to do so at midday in central Norwich or Sheffield is not really acceptable and is probably inadvisable, to do so in central Kabul is totally inappropriate and down right foolish. Understanding the implications of what you are doing is vitally important. Exposure or partial exposure of breasts can have many purposes 1) to attract a suitor, 2) to appease and show support for an alpha male, 3) to show dominance over rival females by one’s physical presence, 4) draw attention to oneself because nothing else is working, 5) you just want to shock someone. All are examples of needs not being met by the woman exposing her breasts.
If we accept that breast size is not an indication of fecundity, the ability to lactate or sexiness then the exposure or partial exposure of breasts is demonstrating a need by the woman rather than a benefit for the possible suitor. A suitor who falls for the trap of breast exposure is therefore likely to be unsatisfied as will the woman who exposes her breasts because no ones needs are being met properly. It is purely the illusion of needs being met. Each party will remain unsatisfied and remain needy, resulting in more breast exposure and even enlargement.
There are 2 main elements to a fulfilling sex life – love and feeling sexy. Breasts are useful in this but not essential. It is all about state of mind. If someone is psychologically, emotionally and or intellectually compromised, they will not feel sexy even if they want to, so they try desperate measures like breast exposure to feel sexy. A far better solution is to find a way of getting your psychological, emotional and intellectual needs met and then breasts become less relevant.